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I saw this in the comments the other day. This guy said, “They aren’t going to let me build anything in Chinatown and if I do, they aren’t going to buy from me.” Now this is my problem with the statement the person has not built a business in Chinatown. The person has not tried to sell to Asian people.
So, the person doesn’t know if that’s true. They assume that it is true and that’s all that matters. When you assume something is true without the benefit of rigorous intellectual analysis, then it’s true. That’s the reason I hate the mindset and am doing this video.
Let’s get down to the mindset of losing before you even get started. For some reason or another, there are many people who feel they are going to lose in certain arenas. Now in the book I’m working on one of the laws is, find out for yourself. Do not listen to other people. Sometimes the counsel of other people is spot on. But if you are rigorous enough to find out for yourself, you are going to discover other things that you did not know, so it’s worth it to do your own self-discovery and not to rely on what other people are telling you.
I’ll give you an example. I was given some advice not to do a certain thing. As I researched it, I found out that the other people who won were doing the exact same thing I was doing. Because all you hear is the stories of the losers.
You know you’ll hear a truncated version of success from the winners, But, they will not be out talking about how they did it unless there is a price tag involved. So, you have to buy the story of the winners.
Do not allow yourself to say you are going to lose or you aren’t going to make it if you haven’t gone out there and put your best foot forward. This is what people tend to do. They will go ahead and mentally lose before they put out the first hit, before they put the first line on the paper, before they hit that first note, before they go to the job interview, before they go to the sales presentation.
They will say jacked up shit like this, “I’m just going to do this for practice.” “There’s a really good chance I won’t win, but I’m going to try it anyway.” That’s loser speak. That is loser language. Instead you should say, “I’m going to give it my best shot and I fully expect to win.”
Start telling yourself that. That is a better way to go. That doesn’t mean you are going to win. But, it means you are going to win way more than you are going to lose.
It makes a big difference. When I started redirecting my energy towards winning and left certain mindsets behind, I saw different results. You need to start practicing success.
Many people practice failure. You practice failure when you do something half-heartedly and you don’t really try. You’re not trying and that’s why you don’t get good results.
If you have a plan and you have it in your head that you’re going to win, you will win. Start telling yourself that. There will be people against you, so why would you be against yourself and tell yourself negative things. You can’t join in with the hate camp who is chanting, “We can’t win. We can’t win.”
Racism is real. Sexism is real. But it can’t stop you unless you buy into it.
You can’t stop playing until the whistle is blown. In the NFL, they teach the guys if you see something that looks like a fumble you run into the end zone. If you have to come back that’s cool but at least pick up the ball and run to the end zone. Until the whistle is blown, the game is in play. There are many people who are not even suited up. Some people aren’t even on the playing field.
Now this is how you make money. You go out there and you prepare to win. You put it in your mind that you will win. You put it in your mind that, “I’ve got that.” The first few times you won’t have it. It’s going to go sideways. You have to divest yourself of sometimes years of negative thinking that holds you back.
This is one of the things that I think people don’t seem to understand. What you think about is what you become. How you talk to yourself is what you shape yourself to be.
There are so many people waiting on Superman. They are waiting on the Incredible Hulk to come in and save the day. It’s not going to happen. So, you’ve got to go ahead and put your own cape on and develop your own super powers and go out and kick ass for you to win.
I know people who bitch and moan about stuff that happened a decade ago. It’s really crazy how many people are stuck on the past. You can’t change that. The past is over.
This is what is going to happen in the future. Only the wealthy are going to have malls or the malls are only going to be in wealthy neighborhoods. I already see that trend.
You’re going to have a lot of people like me. I don’t really go to the store. I’m an Amazon dude.
You have to set your mind on success. You don’t set your mind on fuckery. You set your mind on success.
Don’t listen to people who can’t help you get there. If they aren’t living that life, don’t listen to them. If they knew, they would be living differently. Just because they are older than you, that doesn’t mean shit.
Don’t watch my videos with your girl if your relationship is not solid. Don’t do it. She will be threatened by it. She is afraid you will leave her if you become successful.
One of the best places you can get to is a place where you don’t need parental approval for anything. When you don’t need parental approval, they will respect you more. They really will.
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