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Scared money never made money. I think it’s the gospel. But, before we get into that, let’s talk about what is money. There are many different forms of currency. When you speak of money, the immediate default is paper money. It’s more than that.
There are many different forms of currency. There’s spiritual currency, physical currency, and mental currency such as creativity and emotional. There are so many different forms of money, wealth, assets and resources.
So, if you are in a constriction mindset, then you actually chase away the things you want. Let me break it down for you. You can’t own, have, cultivate, gather, collect, or amass things you despise. If you’re scared, you despise these things. Because if you weren’t scared, there would be no fear. I know people who hear me say they do not get what that means. People say, “I don’t despise being wealthy, but I’m not wealthy.” Maybe you are.
You can’t have the thing you are really scared of or despise or worry about all the time. You can’t have it. People ask why. The answer is because you predominantly fill your mind with the thing you don’t want; pushing out the thoughts, the wishes, the dreams, the stuff you do want. There’s an immutable law of nature. Only one thing can occupy one place at one time, except in science fiction. For most of us, we can’t do it. We’re not operating or living on that plane.
If only one thing can occupy one place at a time and you’re scared of money or whatever, you are filling your mind with the thing you don’t want. That’s exactly what you will get though, because it’s the thing you think about all the time.
I used to get tickets like a fool. I would get on the road and see cops and get really nervous. The hair on the back of my neck would stand up. It wasn’t about the cop, it was worry about the repercussions of what could happen if I got a ticket. I thought about it all the time and it became true. I remember one month when I got three tickets in less than 25 days. I was in a tough position where if I got one more ticket, I would lose my license.
Then I remember taking a trip a long time ago when I was still in the military and took a trip from Atlanta to Washington DC. I had a Nissan Stanza at the time. A Stanza would do 110 mph. I went from Atlanta, Georgia to Washington DC in about nine hours and 45 minutes, flying.
This is when the State Troopers had Mustang 5.0s. You didn’t know it was a trooper until it was too late. I passed these cops flying, but my mind was filled with my trip. My mind was filled with thoughts about having a great time. I didn’t get a ticket. I look back at that experience as a reminder when I fall back into scared little bitch mode.
The reason I was speeding and not worried about getting a ticket was because of something First Sargent Branch told me. He said if I ever got pulled over, I should pull out my military ID and hand it to the police with my driver’s license. It worked. Every time I got pulled over, I handed them my military ID and never got a ticket. I tested it several times, and it always worked. So, I had in my mind that I could speed and not get a ticket.
What I just gave you is something you can use in your business. You can use that to be successful doing whatever. Every goal that I’ve written down thus far (except for the newest ones) has been achieved. I think about that often.
Some people are afraid to dream. I know it sounds crazy. How can a dream hurt you? There are so many people who are afraid to dream. If they have this dream and it doesn’t happen, they’re crushed. They’re demoralized. They feel like a sucker.
I think that is misguided thinking. I dream all the time. I think about what I want in life. I fill my head with it.
Being afraid to dream is a form of being afraid of money and will keep you from actually making money. It’s not going to happen. If you are afraid to spend money, you’re not going to make money. If you’re afraid to release love, you’re not going to get love.
If you are in a position where you are experiencing all this fear, you are not making money and won’t be able to achieve your dreams. The only cure for this is to replace the fear with thoughts about what you want.
If you have a plan for your life and your family, it’s not going to be so easy to invade that mental space with fearful thoughts. Be sure to fill your head with all kinds of good stuff. Read books. Watch videos and listen to classical music. Fill up your head with good stuff and it will be much harder for the bad stuff to occupy your mind.
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